how sad it is to have to divvy up all your possessions that entail history and memories and place them into 'his' and mine piles. Just doesn't seem fair...
It is not fair. But worse than that is when you have to do it and then about 1 year later you go into that closet that you have been advoiding, and find everything that ment something to you a year ago.
In my case it was pictures. Happy times. And it was really hard to make new Mine and Hers piles.
Sorry! Been there....I had to come to the conclusion that "things" are just things. I will get more someday. Memories are not something you can split up unfortunately. Strong you WILL get over this hump.
well I'm new here...not sure how I even got here :)...but you seem like a really really nice person...hard to believe you'd have an "ex" - I've been there too...it gets better but it takes a while. Fortunately you have wonderful kids and pets :)
:(
Posted by: Tawcan | Monday, June 27, 2005 at 02:47 PM
It isn't
~K
Posted by: Kismet | Monday, June 27, 2005 at 03:28 PM
*hug*
Posted by: Ashley | Monday, June 27, 2005 at 04:15 PM
xoxo
Posted by: Kila | Monday, June 27, 2005 at 09:08 PM
It doesn't seem fair at all :(
Posted by: Thumper | Monday, June 27, 2005 at 10:46 PM
It is not fair. But worse than that is when you have to do it and then about 1 year later you go into that closet that you have been advoiding, and find everything that ment something to you a year ago.
In my case it was pictures. Happy times. And it was really hard to make new Mine and Hers piles.
Posted by: v | Tuesday, June 28, 2005 at 09:29 AM
Sorry to hear you're having to go through all this, Chana. =( Big hugs to you and the boys!
Posted by: Scooterdeb | Tuesday, June 28, 2005 at 12:51 PM
Sorry! Been there....I had to come to the conclusion that "things" are just things. I will get more someday. Memories are not something you can split up unfortunately. Strong you WILL get over this hump.
Posted by: Sallie | Tuesday, June 28, 2005 at 05:00 PM
well I'm new here...not sure how I even got here :)...but you seem like a really really nice person...hard to believe you'd have an "ex" - I've been there too...it gets better but it takes a while. Fortunately you have wonderful kids and pets :)
One day at a time...like everything else :)
Posted by: debzy | Friday, July 01, 2005 at 02:59 PM
I agree.
Posted by: BB | Wednesday, October 21, 2009 at 08:50 AM